Mother bear!

I have not always been a person that stood up for myself, some might even have called me a doormat. It amazes me how having children can bring out the mother bear in someone who use to not want to upset anyone. Why, may you ask such a change in my personality just because of my darling babies? Well, it is simple, I want my children to speak their mind, not be afraid to question society, and grow up strong and independent, and I knew I needed to be this model for them. I also realized that not only do I need to be their model, but also their advocate. My children are little, and need someone to stick up for them when they are being mistreated, so if you directly or indirectly mistreat or say something to upset this momma bear be prepared for the attack. For all you non parents out there who think you have all the answers about raising children, I'm here to inform you that you don't, not even close, and once you think you have stuff figured out your child throws a curve ball, and you were waiting for a fast pitch, catching you totally off guard and having to rethink your play book once again. So next time you are at a restaurant and you see a child not acting suitable in your eyes, stop and think before you open your big fat judgmental mouth. Maybe that child is hungry or tired and doesn't have good coping skills yet to deal with hhis emotions because he is little, and thrown out of his normal routine. You don't know what's going on, so don't assume that you do. Keep your mouth shut, or momma bear will get you, and she doesn't play nice, and will do whatever needs to be done to protect her young. News flash to for you non parents, if you choose one day to take the parenthood adventure, your children will not always behave perfectly. They will be loud, throw fits, and embarrass you, but hopefully someone will understand that sometimes kids act this way and don't judge you as a parent, or make you feel like your kid is a problem. When that day comes I hope you wise up and realize what a judgemental jerk you were, and apologize for trying to act like a child rearing know it all, but until then know that this momma bear will always protect her young, and I will come for you if you ever try to mess with my family again.